There is no set path, just follow your heart.

I am so tired of men close to my age saying they are looking for a “Cougar”…you’re not what a cougar is looking for.  Cougars want men that are far younger.  (hence the reason the term came to be). Perhaps to someone in their 60’s…

I am actually retired from such behavior, but 33 isn’t a “cub”…21 is. I want someone my own age. 

This is a pointless post, just a really insignificant rant.

/end rant.